This past Thursday was Thanksgiving, of course. But from now until Christmas generally is a good time to count your blessings.
I spend a lot of time in this column pointing out things I perceive to be wrong with the world. But sometimes problems can seem less daunting if you look at them from a different perspective.
Here are some examples of ways to be thankful that you may not have thought about. If you think about it, everyone has something to be thankful for.
If you are mad at a family member or a friend, be thankful that you have family members or friends. Many people are all alone. Call your family member or friend and make up right away.
If you are upset about a problem you face at work, be thankful for the challenge. Solving it will build your character and make you stronger.
If you don't like your job, be thankful that you live in a county where there are lots of good jobs. Be thankful that the economy is in good enough shape to make those jobs available. Challenge yourself to get a new, better job.
If you don't like your elected officials, be thankful that we live in a country where you can do something about it. Get informed and vote for officials you think will do a better job in office.
If you wish you had more time to yourself, be thankful that your life has so much purpose. If you're that busy, you must be doing many positive things. Focus on them. Make those things your recreation.
If you wish you were taller, shorter, thinner or fatter, be thankful that human beings were made so uniquely - each one different and possessing strengths and weaknesses. And always remember there is someone taller, shorter, thinner or fatter than you are.
If you wish you had more money, be thankful that you have the opportunity to make more money. We live in an area with many diverse opportunities. Take the time you spend wishing you had more money and spend it finding a way to make more money.
If you are unhappy or upset because you are worrying about a friend or family member, be thankful that you have a caring heart. Not everyone does, you know. But try not to worry too much. Worry can't solve problems.
If you don't like all the violence on television, be thankful for Nick At Night.
If you have health problems, be thankful that advances in medicine have made treatment of your illness more successful.
If you don't like waiting in line at the drive-thru, be thankful for a moment to reflect on the events of the day.
If you don't like waiting in line at the grocery checkout, be thankful for the opportunity to scan the wacky tabloid headlines.
I know it's a lot to ask. I also know I'm not very good at it. But this holiday season, let's try to view the glass as half full instead of half empty.
Let's look at the bright side and be truly thankful.
